My friends think I'm Belimic

Greta Rules · Joined: 16 Apr 2007 Posts: 45 Location: Minnesota

I recently went to a friends party and my BFF and I were called Belimic because we were skinnier than the rest of them. They all say they were joking but they keep bringing it up like if I walk by the bathroom they say 'Theres you favorite room.' I just hate it when they bring it up, is there any way I could tell them to stop or give a good comeback?

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Kaytee576 · Site Admin Joined: 08 Apr 2007 Posts: 256 Location: UK

Hi Greta Rules, so sorry you had this experience at your friends party, it seems quite clear these comments are fueled by jealousy but they are unfair and not nice.

I think the best way to deal with this would be to act as though their comments do not bother you, I know this is hard but by acting this way I am sure the people saying these things will get bored and hopefully leave you alone, If they comment again stick with your friend and together give the HA HA whatever response, try to let it go over your head, I feel if you comment back this will add more fuel to the fire and give them something to go back on with another pointless comment.

It isnt nice for you, how does your friend feel about this? I hope it isnt upsetting you too much, I think as I said they have looked at you and felt jealous, so they are attacking you with stupid actions. Sorry to not be much help, the other friend that is going through this too, talk to her make sure she is OK and talk to her about how you feel, be strong together and remember people that attack others with nasty comments are almost always insecure about themselves and you are worth so much more then that.

Take care hun xx